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Who Worked, Who Stayed Home, And How It Affects Equitable Distribution In New York?

October 14, 20243 min read

When a marriage falls apart, the emotional and financial toll can be overwhelming. You might be wondering: 

  • "How will our assets be divided?" 

  • "Does my role as breadwinner count against me?" 

  • "Is New York’s system fair when it comes to property division?" 

If you’ve contributed to your marriage—whether by working or staying home to care for your family—these are daunting questions. Divorce isn’t just about splitting assets; it’s about ensuring that each spouse’s contributions, both financial and non-financial, are recognized.  

In New York, property division follows the principle of equitable distribution—which means fair, but not necessarily equal. Understanding how your role in the marriage will impact this division is critical as you navigate this life-altering process. 

Equitable Distribution In New York: What You Need To Know  

New York is an equitable distribution state, meaning assets are divided fairly, though not necessarily equally. This is different from states that divide marital property 50/50. The court takes into consideration various factors when deciding how to distribute assets, and the role each spouse played during the marriage is significant. 

If one partner worked while the other stayed home, you might wonder how this dynamic will impact your divorce settlement. Let’s break down some key considerations: 

Who Worked And Who Stayed Home?

Assets during a divorce

The courts will closely evaluate the contributions of both spouses, whether those contributions were financial or non-financial. 

  • Financial Contributions: As the primary earner, you may feel that your significant financial input entitles you to a larger share of the marital assets. This is a common argument, especially if your career sustained the family's lifestyle. However, the court takes a broader view. 

  • Non-Financial Contributions: On the other hand, if your spouse stayed home to manage household responsibilities, the court recognizes that these non-financial contributions—such as raising children, maintaining the home, and supporting your career—are equally valuable in the eyes of the law. 

Key Tip: It's important to gather evidence that demonstrates the value of both financial and non-financial contributions. This can include financial records, schedules showing time spent on family care, or statements about the support provided during the marriage. 

How the Court Decides: Fair But Not Equal 

Here’s a breakdown of what the court looks at to ensure fair distribution: 

  • Length of the Marriage: Longer marriages tend to lead to more equal divisions of property. 

  • Income and Earning Capacity: The court examines whether one spouse has a significantly higher earning potential than the other. 

  • Health and Age: Older spouses or those in poorer health may be awarded more support, especially if they have limited earning potential. 

  • Contributions to Marriage: This includes both financial contributions and non-financial roles like raising children or managing the household. 

Understanding "Equitable" vs. "Equal" 

It's crucial to understand that equitable does not mean equal. In some cases, one spouse may receive more assets if they made a greater financial contribution, while in other cases, the non-working spouse may be entitled to more support to balance the scales. The court’s goal is to make sure both parties can move forward on fair footing, considering everything that went into making the marriage work. 

How We Can Help? 

Dividing marital assets can be an emotional and complex process. Whether you were the spouse who worked or stayed home, it's vital to ensure your contributions are recognized and that you receive a fair share of the assets.  

At ASJ Law Office, we understand the complexities of divorce and offer a 15-minute case review to help you navigate your options.

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Managing and Founding Attorney of ASJ Law Office

Asia Scarlett-Jones

Managing and Founding Attorney of ASJ Law Office

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